In 2017 my wife and I elected early retirement from our jobs and went off in pursuit of a whole new adventure. Up until that point we had good, stable lives, with steady jobs, great families, good friends. But we felt we were missing out on something – we had both worked since our teenage years, without a break (except for some “time off” for Maricela to raise our children). We had taken vacations over the years, but they were always limited to one or two weeks at a time, due to the demands of our jobs. As we looked forward, we could clearly picture our next 10-15 years: continuing at our steady jobs, along with their long commutes and corresponding stress, and the hope of retirement some time in the future, along with the hope that we would still be healthy enough at that point to enjoy our retirement. That didn’t feel like enough for us, so we decided to take a risk. We sold and gave away most of our belongings, squeezed as much as we could into our newly acquired minivan, and hit the road.
First we took several weeks to drive from California to Florida to drop our daughter off at university. Then we drove back to California over the next couple of weeks to pick up our dog who we had left behind for this portion of the trip.
After driving nearly 8,000 miles crisscrossing the US, we drove another 1,300 miles south of the US-Mexico border from the crossing at Nogales, Arizona. Some people think we’re crazy to go travel so many miles by car, but it’s how we’ve always enjoyed traveling. We get to see more of the countryside, we get to stop and interact with people, and we have the freedom to make stops and detours according to our own schedule, not according to an airline schedule.
In a sense, that is the same reason we left behind our jobs – it’s not that they were bad, but we wanted the freedom to live life on our own terms. Making a long commute five days a week and working long hours puts a lot of constraints on living how we want. Of course it also provides financial resources that aid in living how we want. That is how we came up with the idea of moving to Mexico. We felt that with our small pension and our savings, we would have enough to afford a reasonably comfortable life there, more so than what we expected we could afford living in the US.
The Drive South
In an effort to heed the safety warnings for driving in Mexico, which advise to only drive during the daytime, we spread the 1,300 miles over four days. We headed out around 9 or 10 each morning, and arrived at our next stop around 6 or 7 pm. That gave us enough time for a relaxed schedule, allowing us to get the rest we needed and to not have to rush along the way.
By the time we got settled into our hotel or Airbnb each day, it was early enough that even though it had gotten dark, we didn’t hesitate to walk around in the evening looking for places to eat. In some ways I feel we got lucky, especially when we booked Airbnb’s – since we are not familiar with any of the towns we passed through in Mexico, we had to use our best judgment when selecting places to stay. Ultimately we felt that all of our choices turned out well. We met many great hosts, and we never had any trouble finding good food at nearby restaurants or at local roadside stands.
For the drive south we had no electronic navigation because we’re on a quirky phone plan and it would have been expensive to use it in Mexico. Instead, we plotted out each day’s drive on GoogleMaps, used our iPads to take screen shots of any important points along the route, and did our best to not get lost. For the most part we followed Mexican Interstate 15 all the way, we just had to make careful notes for how to get to each of the towns we stopped in along the way. The interstate passes near some well-known places such as Puerto Vallarta and Mazatlan, but we didn’t stop anywhere along the way that would be recognized as an American tourist destination. We were focused on getting to our final destination as soon as we reasonably could. I acknowledge that “soon” is a relative term, since it took us about six weeks from the time we left California to the time we arrived at our destination in Mexico! Stay with us as we describe life in Mexico.